"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A side effect of being a DJ: Other girls disrespect my girl

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I've applied what I learned here in real life, and landed myself an amazing girlfriend. So far all is good, she's nuts about me, and I'm in full DJ mode.

But there's an unintended consequence to being a DJ: My girlfriend gets treated like crap by other girls when we go out.

I see them scoping us out. They stare at me and give her murderous looks. They get in her way, try to inconvenience her, and make things as difficult as possible. I get flirted with, the red carpet treatment, and compliments.

This is great for my ego, but I kinda feel bad for my girlfriend. I can see in her face she hates it and feels inferior to the other girls.

I guess the DJ lifestyle is a win/win situation for the guy, but for the girl, it's not a garden of roses....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alle_Gory said:
Tell them to respect your girl of fvck off.
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I do, but that seems to make them even more determined.

Though, in hindsight, this is a problem lots of guys wish they had. ;)
 
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woman are the most jealous people. their just mad and haiting on you.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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beatoven said:
I do, but that seems to make them even more determined.

Though, in hindsight, this is a problem lots of guys wish they had. ;)
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Nice. Even better. :up: Everyone wins except for the random chicks.
 
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yeah bro, same thing happened with my ex girlfriend before I moved. my ex was one of those people who was nice to just about everyone and would make friends with all of my friends. One night, my roommates sister disrespected her pretty bad and I didn't even know. I guess when your room mate has been your friend for the past 5 years and is one of the coolest people you know, one wouldn't suspect their sister to be a total complete fvcking ****.
 
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