"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A scene from the Inbetweeners

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Here's a funny scene from the British comedy The Inbetweeners. It follow’s the lives of four teenagers striving to be popular in school. In this scene we see Carly, a girl that Simon (one of the main characters) has oneitis for, playfully flirting with him.

On the surface, it appears fun and innocent to the naive but when you watch the climax of the episode you will look back and see the underlying tactics that the girl plays on poor Simon, unbeknown to him and the rest of his clueless friends. The rest of the episode see’s the character building up an image in his head that he will finally score with the gal.

It demonstrates the selfish nature that women have from an early age to manipulate to achieve what they desire – in this instance it’s not simon!

Simon was blind to see that he was being taken for granted.

I’d recommend the show to anyone. It has plenty of laugh out loud moments.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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its very good and i would advise watching the movies too especially the second one

however it's got a very British sense of humour which some americans may find difficult to understand.....
 
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