"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A reminder why it is important to cultivate mystery and uncertainty

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No bro Nice guys always fail #2. Sense of humour and busting her balls/teasing/playing/flirting, is so easy. If you can’t do that with any girl, from 6 to 60, you got big problems.

Fun and creative dates - skydiving and mountain climbing, where they suffer.
No.2 they can learn as they grow older.

But No.3 they fail because it's not part of their character or default mode.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sorry, but if a woman needs her relationship to be unstable to be happy, she IS toxic.
Also, if she has to date an @sshole in order to not be bored, same.

These women should be avoided like the plague, and should not be getting our attention. These are the same women everyone calls BPD on here because they have to stir up drama to feel alive. Hard pass.
No wonder I've never met a BPD woman.

When they meet me, their BPD symptoms dissipates into thin air..

I'm like a walking miracle holy man for these women.

Call me St.Spaz
 

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No wonder I've never met a BPD woman.
I've met several officially medically diagnosed BPD women. But I've never been in an affair with one, nor have I ever felt the urge to be.

I should clarify that when you are talking about the early stages of attraction, dating, or seduction, you shouldn't put all your cards on the table. You don't want to be overeager or appear to go "all in" on a woman before she decides if she likes you or not, because that will send the message that she can do better. Once you are actually a couple though, she shouldn't have to rely on doubt or drama to keep the relationship interesting.

Like @Robert28 said, if a woman needs a man to fight with in front of the neighbors, or to beat her on the front lawn, you need to get a different girl.
 

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I've met several officially medically diagnosed BPD women. But I've never been in an affair with one, nor have I ever felt the urge to be.

I should clarify that when you are talking about the early stages of attraction, dating, or seduction, you shouldn't put all your cards on the table. You don't want to be overeager or appear to go "all in" on a woman before she decides if she likes you or not, because that will send the message that she can do better. Once you are actually a couple though, she shouldn't have to rely on doubt or drama to keep the relationship interesting.

Like @Robert28 said, if a woman needs a man to fight with in front of the neighbors, or to beat her on the front lawn, you need to get a different girl.
U r right.

Women should think rationally and logically just like men.

Unfortunately they are not rational nor logical like men.

But that's good news to me, I'm naturally unpredictable, one minute I'm a complete prince of a man and the next minute I could be a caveman, catching her off balanced, tearing her clothes off and carrying her off for some anal action despite her protestations.

But it's too late for her...in the end she'll have multiple hard orgasms and won't know why she let's me get away with it.

She could be BPD, she could be truly crazy, she could be a feminist, she could even be a princess and it won't matter to me as I will get what I want in the end.
 
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