"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A reminder why it is important to cultivate mystery and uncertainty

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No bro Nice guys always fail #2. Sense of humour and busting her balls/teasing/playing/flirting, is so easy. If you can’t do that with any girl, from 6 to 60, you got big problems.

Fun and creative dates - skydiving and mountain climbing, where they suffer.
No.2 they can learn as they grow older.

But No.3 they fail because it's not part of their character or default mode.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Sorry, but if a woman needs her relationship to be unstable to be happy, she IS toxic.
Also, if she has to date an @sshole in order to not be bored, same.

These women should be avoided like the plague, and should not be getting our attention. These are the same women everyone calls BPD on here because they have to stir up drama to feel alive. Hard pass.
No wonder I've never met a BPD woman.

When they meet me, their BPD symptoms dissipates into thin air..

I'm like a walking miracle holy man for these women.

Call me St.Spaz
 

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No wonder I've never met a BPD woman.
I've met several officially medically diagnosed BPD women. But I've never been in an affair with one, nor have I ever felt the urge to be.

I should clarify that when you are talking about the early stages of attraction, dating, or seduction, you shouldn't put all your cards on the table. You don't want to be overeager or appear to go "all in" on a woman before she decides if she likes you or not, because that will send the message that she can do better. Once you are actually a couple though, she shouldn't have to rely on doubt or drama to keep the relationship interesting.

Like @Robert28 said, if a woman needs a man to fight with in front of the neighbors, or to beat her on the front lawn, you need to get a different girl.
 

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I've met several officially medically diagnosed BPD women. But I've never been in an affair with one, nor have I ever felt the urge to be.

I should clarify that when you are talking about the early stages of attraction, dating, or seduction, you shouldn't put all your cards on the table. You don't want to be overeager or appear to go "all in" on a woman before she decides if she likes you or not, because that will send the message that she can do better. Once you are actually a couple though, she shouldn't have to rely on doubt or drama to keep the relationship interesting.

Like @Robert28 said, if a woman needs a man to fight with in front of the neighbors, or to beat her on the front lawn, you need to get a different girl.
U r right.

Women should think rationally and logically just like men.

Unfortunately they are not rational nor logical like men.

But that's good news to me, I'm naturally unpredictable, one minute I'm a complete prince of a man and the next minute I could be a caveman, catching her off balanced, tearing her clothes off and carrying her off for some anal action despite her protestations.

But it's too late for her...in the end she'll have multiple hard orgasms and won't know why she let's me get away with it.

She could be BPD, she could be truly crazy, she could be a feminist, she could even be a princess and it won't matter to me as I will get what I want in the end.
 
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