A reason why women might appear contradicting / crazy

[Hoodie]

I think to a large degree it comes down to the mismatch of what they are sexually attracted to and the appearances and opinions they are expected to have in order to fit in with the group.
Women are much more dependent of being accepted by the group then men are. So they are much more likely to have the same opinions as everyone else, like the leftist ideals that has been pushed the last decade. They don't care about the validity of it at all, they accept it as default in order to not be outcast.
While men have no problem having different opinions that are more aligned with reality, because men are better at surviving on our own or within a small group of friends.

This is where the conflict and confusion arises in women I believe. Because their sexuality is still the same. They are still turned on by things often labeled as "bad" today (look how fifty shades of gray became a bestseller), look at erotic novels for women etc. Imagine the confusion and conflict this would create inside you, if the thing you desire and get turned on by, is labed as bad. And you also have to pretend outwardly that it is bad, in order to be part of the group, yet still you desire and are sexually attracted to the thing you are socially expected to think is bad.
And we wonder why they appear crazy and conflicted.

 

[Hoodie]

I think to a large degree it comes down to the mismatch of what they are sexually attracted to and the appearances and opinions they are expected to have in order to fit in with the group.
Women are much more dependent of being accepted by the group then men are. So they are much more likely to have the same opinions as everyone else, like the leftist ideals that has been pushed the last decade. They don't care about the validity of it at all, they accept it as default in order to not be outcast.
While men have no problem having different opinions that are more aligned with reality, because men are better at surviving on our own or within a small group of friends.

This is where the conflict and confusion arises in women I believe. Because their sexuality is still the same. They are still turned on by everything the left pushes as "bad" or things that are considered taboo, like being dominated, ****, fifty shades of gray, etc. Imagine the confusion and conflict this would create inside you, if the thing you desire and get turned on by, is labed as bad. And you also have to pretend outwardly that it is bad, in order to be part of the group, yet still you desire and are sexually attracted to the thing you are socially expected to think is bad.
And we wonder why they appear crazy and conflicted.

I think it goes so far that they start believing it themselves, eventho they don't get turned on by it.
And that's probably what makes them confused.
Perhaps women's sexuality has always been a bit taboo, which has made women programmed to hide it and mostly potray the things society deems acceptable.
And this is why they seem "crazy" and inconsistent, due to this inner conflict and also why they are so good at pretending, because their survival and acceptance in the group has depended on it.

 

[Plinco]

To be able to think effectively, which is required in order to be functionally independent, one must develop pattern recognition in logic, which means you'd have to be interested in that first. Women generally speaking tend to be more taken care of and don't develop the ability to think effectively. I say 'generally' because some women do develop that virtue to various degrees.

What makes women's sexuality more confusing is their menstrual cycle. What a woman wants changes with that cycle, thus making it a little more complicated to recognize those patterns. Young women who lack the ability to think sufficiently, and lack experience with themselves really don't know what they want.

Unless a woman develops the ability to think, she defaults to an authority. Her peers, family, and the directions from popular culture are the closet proximity to fill that authority void. If a woman has not developed the capacity to authorize herself effectively, then you need to effectively fill that void.