"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A Real Question

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Okay so I have a question for you guys. As you know I am no keyboard jockey, everything I have learned has come from rejections, ons, etc., etc. I have learned
1. Being in sexual state gets women to think "you're hot".
2. Eliciting values gets her to fall in love with you.

I have done both of these and they work. My question is this and I am wondering if someone on this forum can help.

Bvbidd had a great post today talking about being attractive and being a man. While I believe Gunwitch method and fast seduction.com handles the "attraction part" better, I believe this site handles the "man" part better talking about self improvement, confidence, etc.

Now, in the past I have had a hard time eliciting values quicker, so that I could get into a girl's panties faster. While I have the sexual state thing down, some times I can act too ****y/funny around a girl and she is more attracted to the laid back/masculine/respectful type. I was wondering if anybody knew of a way to quickly elicit values with about one good question that would reveal the guy she fvcks? Oh yeah, this question is for real don juans only, no keyboard jockeys please.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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organizedconfusion

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all you have to do is follow the vibe you are getting from her and how she is responding to you..that's it. it's no big deal, you just have to be aware of how she is reacting to you and how you feel during the interaction.If you been dating enough, you can kinda sense when something is working and something is not..listen to your instincts and follow through.the only thing you need to worry about is maintaining the attraction and she'll be all yours..
 

Distant Light

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There isn't really one good question. Best bet is just to play it through and just get the close. If you want to get quicker progress you can escalate more but there is a chance you might get alot of LMR or just end up getting a ONS, or even nothing.
 
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