"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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A Real Question

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Okay so I have a question for you guys. As you know I am no keyboard jockey, everything I have learned has come from rejections, ons, etc., etc. I have learned
1. Being in sexual state gets women to think "you're hot".
2. Eliciting values gets her to fall in love with you.

I have done both of these and they work. My question is this and I am wondering if someone on this forum can help.

Bvbidd had a great post today talking about being attractive and being a man. While I believe Gunwitch method and fast seduction.com handles the "attraction part" better, I believe this site handles the "man" part better talking about self improvement, confidence, etc.

Now, in the past I have had a hard time eliciting values quicker, so that I could get into a girl's panties faster. While I have the sexual state thing down, some times I can act too ****y/funny around a girl and she is more attracted to the laid back/masculine/respectful type. I was wondering if anybody knew of a way to quickly elicit values with about one good question that would reveal the guy she fvcks? Oh yeah, this question is for real don juans only, no keyboard jockeys please.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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organizedconfusion

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all you have to do is follow the vibe you are getting from her and how she is responding to you..that's it. it's no big deal, you just have to be aware of how she is reacting to you and how you feel during the interaction.If you been dating enough, you can kinda sense when something is working and something is not..listen to your instincts and follow through.the only thing you need to worry about is maintaining the attraction and she'll be all yours..
 

Distant Light

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There isn't really one good question. Best bet is just to play it through and just get the close. If you want to get quicker progress you can escalate more but there is a chance you might get alot of LMR or just end up getting a ONS, or even nothing.
 
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