A REAL QUESTION, by a REAL DON JUAN

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Don Juan

Oct 24, 2005

Originally posted by Mr. Cardio
haha, but what I am askin is how do I make a move without losing my cool......I thought that was the question? I dont have a problem making moves, I do, its just that sometimes I can lose my cool a little, I am just looking for a little information.

Your approach should(could) be an opinion opener that way you don't come off aggressive. It could even be a question opener like: Hey, did you see that fight outside the club?

Once you get the IOI's (Indicators of Interest) like the kino, the eye contact, the hair playing she's into you, and as long as you keep your laid back vibe and approach her you shouldnt have a problem.

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.