"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A REAL QUESTION, by a REAL DON JUAN

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Originally posted by Mr. Cardio
haha, but what I am askin is how do I make a move without losing my cool......I thought that was the question? I dont have a problem making moves, I do, its just that sometimes I can lose my cool a little, I am just looking for a little information.
Your approach should(could) be an opinion opener that way you don't come off aggressive. It could even be a question opener like: Hey, did you see that fight outside the club?

Once you get the IOI's (Indicators of Interest) like the kino, the eye contact, the hair playing she's into you, and as long as you keep your laid back vibe and approach her you shouldnt have a problem.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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