"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A female friend of mine posted this on myspace

I was like damn

this is a Don Juan

a few pointers for the challenged :)

so today some idiot asked me a question, on what a "hot mama" like myself is looking for in a man...he asked if money, car and good looks were all i needed..... i almost threw up in his face a bit........
ok so here we go.....

MONEY is definitely out.... i need a man who can impress me even if he were broke.... i need a man who wears his car, not his car wears him..... 1 thing is lots and lots of confidence.. believe me... confidence gets you a long way.

No flowers and candy mumbo-jumbo..... no one wants a guy who kisses your butt..... once in a while ... OK..... but keep it "once in a while".... spare the compliments... there is a limit, i got really sick of hearing how pretty and hot i am :)..... so don't make it like your obsessed with me.... every girl wants a boyfriend not another fan :) .....

LOOKS. there has to be physical attraction..... Obviously.... but did i say confidence?..... makes up for a lot of flaws.....

BE IN CONTROL of things, no girl is interested in a guy she can run... again i don't need a pet..... regardless of how much you like me, (keep it on the low, do not let me know..)

and act like you are Gods gift to the world.... make me want you before you tell me about your feelings.....

OH very IMPORTANT: be INTERESTING.... how's your intellect level?.... i need a smart guy, otherwise you'll get boring real fast....... if you can't upkeep a conversation than you're pretty much out... :)

so CONFIDENCE, BE a leader, do not talk about cars EVER, or your stinkin’ bank account, do not KISS my butt, be BRIEF, DONT shower me with compliments, or presents (if your JUST a fan. Feel free to give me all the gifts of this world.. I WILL ACCEPT:), BE mysterious, leave me hanging..... ok this will give you a good start :)
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Damn, the no talking about cars thing is enough to turn me away. Good luck with that.

Of course, girls really don't give two sh!ts about cars. Or anything guys are interested about. And honestly, most guys don't give a damn about anything girls are interested in. Which is why to be successful you just have to learn how to talk in circles...it's really like a dance.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Wow a woman that actually SAYS what she wants.....I bet if you went out with her and made a bad move she would help you out and say that you're doing it wrong. lol I think it's awesome that she not only knows what she wants but wrote out what she wants "publicly"...
 
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flows101 said:
This women "KNOWS" what she wants... very rare.
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women know what they want and it is almost a copy of what this girl says. The problem is that most women are not honest enough to say those things and rather play games with men.
 
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i think wht it comes down too is there are just too many ppl that are well off its not longer rare to have a nice car.....fact is that a man who has a total package is.....but at the same time i'm sure if the dude had like a lamborghni than it would be somethin to girls cuz that is very rare.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Basically a real man is someone who follows their own dreams and live by their own rules, instead of looking to please others and fulfill their goals. A real women like this is rare, just like a real man is hard to become. I hope she finds herself someone on her level. Good for her! She gets "it!"
 
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sounds like what my girlfriend always says.

good post

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Its easy to post something like that on a myspace but to act on it in the real world is a completely different ballgame. Of course she's not goins to write looks, money, material things are important to her because it would make her look completely shallow to all those who read it. Sub-consciously though, I'm sure she would still prefer a good looking guy over a bad looking guy, and a guy with money over a guy without it. Personality is what seperates the good looking successful guys from other good looking successful guys.
 
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