"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A female friend of mine posted this on myspace

I was like damn

this is a Don Juan

a few pointers for the challenged :)

so today some idiot asked me a question, on what a "hot mama" like myself is looking for in a man...he asked if money, car and good looks were all i needed..... i almost threw up in his face a bit........
ok so here we go.....

MONEY is definitely out.... i need a man who can impress me even if he were broke.... i need a man who wears his car, not his car wears him..... 1 thing is lots and lots of confidence.. believe me... confidence gets you a long way.

No flowers and candy mumbo-jumbo..... no one wants a guy who kisses your butt..... once in a while ... OK..... but keep it "once in a while".... spare the compliments... there is a limit, i got really sick of hearing how pretty and hot i am :)..... so don't make it like your obsessed with me.... every girl wants a boyfriend not another fan :) .....

LOOKS. there has to be physical attraction..... Obviously.... but did i say confidence?..... makes up for a lot of flaws.....

BE IN CONTROL of things, no girl is interested in a guy she can run... again i don't need a pet..... regardless of how much you like me, (keep it on the low, do not let me know..)

and act like you are Gods gift to the world.... make me want you before you tell me about your feelings.....

OH very IMPORTANT: be INTERESTING.... how's your intellect level?.... i need a smart guy, otherwise you'll get boring real fast....... if you can't upkeep a conversation than you're pretty much out... :)

so CONFIDENCE, BE a leader, do not talk about cars EVER, or your stinkin’ bank account, do not KISS my butt, be BRIEF, DONT shower me with compliments, or presents (if your JUST a fan. Feel free to give me all the gifts of this world.. I WILL ACCEPT:), BE mysterious, leave me hanging..... ok this will give you a good start :)
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Damn, the no talking about cars thing is enough to turn me away. Good luck with that.

Of course, girls really don't give two sh!ts about cars. Or anything guys are interested about. And honestly, most guys don't give a damn about anything girls are interested in. Which is why to be successful you just have to learn how to talk in circles...it's really like a dance.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Wow a woman that actually SAYS what she wants.....I bet if you went out with her and made a bad move she would help you out and say that you're doing it wrong. lol I think it's awesome that she not only knows what she wants but wrote out what she wants "publicly"...
 
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flows101 said:
This women "KNOWS" what she wants... very rare.
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women know what they want and it is almost a copy of what this girl says. The problem is that most women are not honest enough to say those things and rather play games with men.
 
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i think wht it comes down too is there are just too many ppl that are well off its not longer rare to have a nice car.....fact is that a man who has a total package is.....but at the same time i'm sure if the dude had like a lamborghni than it would be somethin to girls cuz that is very rare.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Basically a real man is someone who follows their own dreams and live by their own rules, instead of looking to please others and fulfill their goals. A real women like this is rare, just like a real man is hard to become. I hope she finds herself someone on her level. Good for her! She gets "it!"
 
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sounds like what my girlfriend always says.

good post

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Its easy to post something like that on a myspace but to act on it in the real world is a completely different ballgame. Of course she's not goins to write looks, money, material things are important to her because it would make her look completely shallow to all those who read it. Sub-consciously though, I'm sure she would still prefer a good looking guy over a bad looking guy, and a guy with money over a guy without it. Personality is what seperates the good looking successful guys from other good looking successful guys.
 
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