"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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mackdaddy27

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i remember reading from a good book called pimp mack or something like that.

anyway, it says before you jump into this sarging game, you need confidence and if you dont have confidence you need to first go out there and fix your issues and then come back to the field to play.

you see, the logic is that just because you approach like a crazy maniac, Doesn't automatically guarantee a success.

the girls will always be there, but you need to get to their level of performance

There is a standard , a level of performance you need to come up to speed , and if your don't measure upto that bar , you dont get the tail.
Basically, you need to improve yourself, to measure upto this 'bar of standards of getting tail'.. its about self improvement , and getting yourself upto a standard that these women will look at you and want to do you. However, if your not fixing your self and not doing self improving, barring some luck like your super good looking.. you'll be in the category where your unhappy because your trying to get something, but your dont have those standards e.g. looks, confidence or whatever

so bottom line, fix your issues even if you have to take time out from sarging. Improve yourself so you are at the standard where its easy to get girls.

The logic being , Its easier when you have the value...

when you have something to sell..

so make it valuable !
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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No no no. Do BOTH. Don't spend years 'improving' yourself without working on your game and social skills. I think Pook said something like "It is too easy to say 'no I will just wait untill I have a better body/can play guitar/whatever' and use it as an excuse not to do anything". You need to have a balance and do both.
 

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SinJester said:
No no no. Do BOTH. Don't spend years 'improving' yourself without working on your game and social skills. I think Pook said something like "It is too easy to say 'no I will just wait untill I have a better body/can play guitar/whatever' and use it as an excuse not to do anything". You need to have a balance and do both.

very true.. that would be awesome, but in reality i think its hard for someone to balance.. sarging, improving yourself etc..

because by the very nature of sarging, you have to be confident in your goods...you have be able to subconcsiously show that you are perfect.
 

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I just thought of another quote..


NO MATTER , HOW BAD THINGS GET..

never ever degrade yourself..

exit with your head high...exit with your king status in tact.
 

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Perfect does not exist. Period. Yet we still have to strive for it.

Why can't it be done?

"I'm happy with who I am yet I still strive to improve at everything I do"

That is THE MAN. The DJ. The Prince. That is me. That is you.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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