Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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mackdaddy27

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i remember reading from a good book called pimp mack or something like that.

anyway, it says before you jump into this sarging game, you need confidence and if you dont have confidence you need to first go out there and fix your issues and then come back to the field to play.

you see, the logic is that just because you approach like a crazy maniac, Doesn't automatically guarantee a success.

the girls will always be there, but you need to get to their level of performance

There is a standard , a level of performance you need to come up to speed , and if your don't measure upto that bar , you dont get the tail.
Basically, you need to improve yourself, to measure upto this 'bar of standards of getting tail'.. its about self improvement , and getting yourself upto a standard that these women will look at you and want to do you. However, if your not fixing your self and not doing self improving, barring some luck like your super good looking.. you'll be in the category where your unhappy because your trying to get something, but your dont have those standards e.g. looks, confidence or whatever

so bottom line, fix your issues even if you have to take time out from sarging. Improve yourself so you are at the standard where its easy to get girls.

The logic being , Its easier when you have the value...

when you have something to sell..

so make it valuable !
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No no no. Do BOTH. Don't spend years 'improving' yourself without working on your game and social skills. I think Pook said something like "It is too easy to say 'no I will just wait untill I have a better body/can play guitar/whatever' and use it as an excuse not to do anything". You need to have a balance and do both.
 

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SinJester said:
No no no. Do BOTH. Don't spend years 'improving' yourself without working on your game and social skills. I think Pook said something like "It is too easy to say 'no I will just wait untill I have a better body/can play guitar/whatever' and use it as an excuse not to do anything". You need to have a balance and do both.

very true.. that would be awesome, but in reality i think its hard for someone to balance.. sarging, improving yourself etc..

because by the very nature of sarging, you have to be confident in your goods...you have be able to subconcsiously show that you are perfect.
 

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I just thought of another quote..


NO MATTER , HOW BAD THINGS GET..

never ever degrade yourself..

exit with your head high...exit with your king status in tact.
 

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Perfect does not exist. Period. Yet we still have to strive for it.

Why can't it be done?

"I'm happy with who I am yet I still strive to improve at everything I do"

That is THE MAN. The DJ. The Prince. That is me. That is you.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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