"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A quick question

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If you are in class and you start running routines on a girl you like, and because of the things you say, you catch the attention of a lot of people. Is this a good thing or bad? I noticed in one class that I was just on fire with this one chick. I opened her and ran a few routines(ESP, dog names, etc..) and this set me off for better convo. Well, this girl isnt the cutest girl in the class, there are a few hotties sitting in close proximity of my target and me and I noticed that all these hotties were paying close attention to the conversation the whole time. I would talk to my target and make eye contact sparingly with one or two other girls and they would end up shifting their eye contact when i glanced at them and finally one the alpha chick of this group got my attention and told me that I was being loud in a playful manner and since I was already in a playful manner as well, we squinted our eyes at each other like we were gonna fight...it was cool and everything but After the class I analyzed this situation and noticed that when I run game on a girl in any class or place with people, they all like to tune in and watch me..Am I being too obvious? I hope not.

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In fact I notice that whenever I say something, get up and walk around, or talk to someone.....a lot of people want to tune in. I've noticed this and maybe I have developed a way to exude more confidence and charm than the other guys and people in general BUT, I feel uncomfortable when I have 24 people watching me as I talk to a girl or a friend.

--another funny thing is that to those who respond to this, notice how I put a Time Constraint to the title of a thread which asks a question that isn't all that quick. ha! talk about internalization.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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True Wolf

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Dude, people would kill for that kinda attention (most often themselves) be happy with it.
 

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Be flattered. You get good at spittin' game with 30 people watching you, you'll own the broad when you're alone.
 

life_of_a_legend

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Yeh brother I feel you,

That happens to me all the time so I always do the "Initial Approach" on a girl when she's by herself. (When she's putting something in her bag or waiting for the train etc) Then when she knows me, that's when I talk to her during class because i know i won't get a weird look from her or get a rejection..but then again any girl would be a fool to reject me;) and to answer your question ...Yes! you are being too obvious but obvious is a good thing in your situation:up:
 

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Yes, yes, yes. Roll with that, you are able to capture the interest of an entire class of kids, that is very impressive, and very alpha. Keep it up.

--Mission
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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