"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A quick little AFC question. Experienced DJs please answer.

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This has really been bothering me lately. Please give your opinion.

I'm 20, I'm at work in retail and an HB9 that I've known for a few weeks comes upto me and we start taking and then she's like "come with me!" or "follow me!" In a kind of orderly way and then she starts walking away(somewhere way far away from where I'm supposed be).

What would you say or do in this situation.

When I was an AFC I'd just be like okay, or just be quite and follow. Now I'm not sure what to say. It happens alot. You know sometimes when girls just expect you to follow them or do what they please cause there used to it. I don't want to say no obviously(cause I want to keep talking) so what should I do?


Stupid I know, but it's bugging me!

Thanks,
Yung
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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it's a matter of what you want to do
 
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Originally posted by Someyungguy
This has really been bothering me lately. Please give your opinion.

I'm 20, I'm at work in retail and an HB9 that I've known for a few weeks comes upto me and we start taking and then she's like "come with me!" or "follow me!" In a kind of orderly way and then she starts walking away(somewhere way far away from where I'm supposed be).

What would you say or do in this situation.

When I was an AFC I'd just be like okay, or just be quite and follow. Now I'm not sure what to say. It happens alot. You know sometimes when girls just expect you to follow them or do what they please cause there used to it. I don't want to say no obviously(cause I want to keep talking) so what should I do?


Stupid I know, but it's bugging me!

Thanks,
Yung
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Make a joke about her tight ass...
 
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if you're interested in her, go follow her but at your slower pace. if she's wondering all over expecting you to follow her while you don't like trying to keep up, you better tell her to slow down and stop wondering around like a kid.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Homie, what is the purpose????

"Follow me"- assert yourself and say "for what?"

Chose the girl you want to have/be with and don't let the girl chose you!!

Work situations complicate things!! You are thinking, "Is she talking to me as a fellow employee or as a man??
 
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I agree. Why would u follow her, shes taking control. Never let that happen. Simply say NO/i'm busy (even better when your not doing anything). Have a little smirk on your face. she wont stop talking to you after this, she'll be stunned and try harder.
 
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just start following her, then when you are behind her, and she least expects it.... POWWW!!!! jab your finger right in her anus.
 
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