"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A question that keeps bothering me

southernteen

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"Why are you so smart?"
"Are you smart?"
"How did you get to be so smart?"

It seems like i get asked one of these questions at least once a week. It is usually a girl who will ask me but sometimes i have guys ask me this also. My question is how do i respond without seeming to boast or be a smart ass? As it stands whenever i get asked i say "I dont know" and feel myself starting to get nervous. Every time i get asked this I manage to blow the entire conversation somehow or another.

I also have a hard time answering any question about myself.
Any ideas?

**EDIT** Maybee i should tell you a little bit about myself. I'm one of those lucky people who aces everything merely by listening in class. I make all A's without studying. I am able to figure out problems that the teacher hasnt taught us yet. I remember all these little facts that have a way of working themselves into a conversation. Because of all this a lot of people think that i spend all my time studying and that i would be incredibibly distraught over lower than normal grades while the truth is i could care less.

I hope i have not seemed too boastful in all this i just figured it would help clear the situation up a little bit. **EDIT**
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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If you are so smart figure it out yourself :D

Deflect it, ask another question, like what makes you think im so smart, or totally unrelated. Or maybe stop working so hard, hard enough that you can be top if necessary but not so hard that people will think you dont have a social life
 

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uhm how about truth? lol

you read a lot on the subject?

you were born that way?

whatever lol
 

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Or maybe stop working so hard, hard enough that you can be top if necessary but not so hard that people will think you dont have a social life
Maybee i should tell you a little bit about myself. I'm one of those lucky people who aces everything merely by listening in class. I make all A's without studying. I am able to figure out problems that the teacher hasnt taught us yet. I remember all these little facts that have a way of working themselves into a conversation. Because of all this a lot of people think that i spend all my time studying and that i would be incredibibly distraught over lower than normal grades while the truth is i could care less.

I hope i have not seemed too boastful in all this i just figured it would help clear the situation up a little bit.
 
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