"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A question I never thought of before...

malestrom

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I'm surprised I never thought of this before...



...but if someone says they can "bench 200", does that include the weight of the bar or just the plates?

Cause I've always said I can benchpress about 200 pounds, but that's because I only count the plates (2 45's and a 10 on each side). What is the official take on this?

Maybe I'm actually benching 245 since the olympic bar weighs 45 pounds.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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you count the bar

so yes, you are actually 45lbs stronger then you thought you were.

hows that for good news.
 

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lucky stiff.

I wish I could just wake up one morning and discover I bench 45 more lbs than i actually do. :D

I have to do it the hard way. its taken me about 5 months, but I can bench 185 from 85.

Rhino
 

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Well u should definetly count the bar too, I mean it'd be bull**** to say I bench 200 when the actual weight u can bench is 245, but a couple of guys I know (including a real gymhead lol) dont count the bar when they mention how much they can bench. But imo counting the weight of the bar is just logical.
 

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Lots of pro's dont count the bar when talking casually, but when it comes down to stats, all of a sudden theres an extra 50 odd lbs that have made their way in somewhere ;)

pft... lucky bloke finding out he can lift an extra 20-odd bags of sugar :p
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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