"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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A question I never thought of before...

malestrom

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I'm surprised I never thought of this before...



...but if someone says they can "bench 200", does that include the weight of the bar or just the plates?

Cause I've always said I can benchpress about 200 pounds, but that's because I only count the plates (2 45's and a 10 on each side). What is the official take on this?

Maybe I'm actually benching 245 since the olympic bar weighs 45 pounds.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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-k2

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you count the bar

so yes, you are actually 45lbs stronger then you thought you were.

hows that for good news.
 

[look]aRhino

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lucky stiff.

I wish I could just wake up one morning and discover I bench 45 more lbs than i actually do. :D

I have to do it the hard way. its taken me about 5 months, but I can bench 185 from 85.

Rhino
 

madgame

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Well u should definetly count the bar too, I mean it'd be bull**** to say I bench 200 when the actual weight u can bench is 245, but a couple of guys I know (including a real gymhead lol) dont count the bar when they mention how much they can bench. But imo counting the weight of the bar is just logical.
 

DJBen

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Lots of pro's dont count the bar when talking casually, but when it comes down to stats, all of a sudden theres an extra 50 odd lbs that have made their way in somewhere ;)

pft... lucky bloke finding out he can lift an extra 20-odd bags of sugar :p
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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