Hey everyone.
I have dated my girlfriend for 2 1/2 years now and she, for the most part, has been an awesome companion. Of course we have had our differences and growing up together in a relationship made it harder (22 and 20 respectively). But overall she is a good girl.
Well over the past few weeks she had been spending all of her free time with her friend because she was moving to Austrailia (and if u live there, a hottie just came your way). I had no problem with that... she just told me to be patient and everything would be back to normal soon. So I did exactly that and went about my business. I'm not a jealous or grossly insecure guy so this kind of stuff doesn't really bother me.
And I waited...
She left for her dad's house in Arizona the day her friend left for Australia and when she came back everything was different. She told me she needed time to 'figure herself out.' She went on to say that she needed to 'know what it feels like to be alone' and all of this stuff. I guess being in a relationship since she was 17 took its toll on her (and it was intense). She said she couldn't see me now and that she wanted her space apart for awhile BUT she wanted to stay commited to each other while apart. Now I know what you are thinking... but she isn't just blowing smoke up my a$$. I am always very forthcoming with people and vice versa with her (and thats what brought us together).
So I ask you now for some advice. What is going on here? And should I be the loyal boyfriend and stick by her side. I have been very torn by this and I need to figure this out.
thanks in advance.
I have dated my girlfriend for 2 1/2 years now and she, for the most part, has been an awesome companion. Of course we have had our differences and growing up together in a relationship made it harder (22 and 20 respectively). But overall she is a good girl.
Well over the past few weeks she had been spending all of her free time with her friend because she was moving to Austrailia (and if u live there, a hottie just came your way). I had no problem with that... she just told me to be patient and everything would be back to normal soon. So I did exactly that and went about my business. I'm not a jealous or grossly insecure guy so this kind of stuff doesn't really bother me.
And I waited...
She left for her dad's house in Arizona the day her friend left for Australia and when she came back everything was different. She told me she needed time to 'figure herself out.' She went on to say that she needed to 'know what it feels like to be alone' and all of this stuff. I guess being in a relationship since she was 17 took its toll on her (and it was intense). She said she couldn't see me now and that she wanted her space apart for awhile BUT she wanted to stay commited to each other while apart. Now I know what you are thinking... but she isn't just blowing smoke up my a$$. I am always very forthcoming with people and vice versa with her (and thats what brought us together).
So I ask you now for some advice. What is going on here? And should I be the loyal boyfriend and stick by her side. I have been very torn by this and I need to figure this out.
thanks in advance.