Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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A question for those of you in sales. . .

The Forms

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In my job hunt I've come across lots of jobs about sales. They use lots of terms I don't know, like inside sales, outside sales and b to b. I'm a little interested in a sales job, but have no idea what these words mean. Can anyone clarify for me? Maybe even give me the inside scoop about what I'd be getting into if I took a sales job?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hooligan Harry

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Sheesh. Its a little more complex then that mate.

Post a list of the acronyms or words you are having a problem with and Ill see if I can help you out
 

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The most common ones I see are "inside sales" "outside sales" and "b to b."

I don't know what these words mean.
 

CGE333

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Inside sales- most likely means you are pounding the telephone dialing for dollars as they say, simply you are working in an office and typically not meeting the clients F2F (face to face)

Outside Sales- means you are meeting the clients/ prospects face to face either by a preset appointment or you are dropping by unannounced hoping the DM (decision maker) is there and has time to talk

There are some older threads either in this section or in the tips section regarding sales, if you haven't already try some searches
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Kwothe

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Pls forget about all the jargon. And get yourself a sales book, it only cost a few bucks, not only you understand the jargon, plus you get a pretty much an idea what a sales job entitle. Dont worry what book you pick up, because all sales go through the same process,no matter what product you sell, you go through the same process.
 

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i was thinking about going into sales too.
but my parents say it's really unreliable.
how much school do i need to jobs in sales?
and how much money does an above average person make?
 

apusislaya

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$500 to $10,000 a month, and some six digits a month of pure profit. Sales on eBay. Idea is simple, get merchandise, sell it. Benefits are great, you don't have to be at work from 9 to 5, plus the more you work the more you make.

Idea is to get merchandise, can do it from U.S. can do it from China, or any other country. The only problem is that if item is unbranded, if customs open it, they will confiscate it.

90% of everything you see on eBay comes from China? :)
 

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Pick up a social psych book. Nothing better than understanding how people work.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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