"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A question for those of you in sales. . .

The Forms

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In my job hunt I've come across lots of jobs about sales. They use lots of terms I don't know, like inside sales, outside sales and b to b. I'm a little interested in a sales job, but have no idea what these words mean. Can anyone clarify for me? Maybe even give me the inside scoop about what I'd be getting into if I took a sales job?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hooligan Harry

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Sheesh. Its a little more complex then that mate.

Post a list of the acronyms or words you are having a problem with and Ill see if I can help you out
 

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The most common ones I see are "inside sales" "outside sales" and "b to b."

I don't know what these words mean.
 

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Inside sales- most likely means you are pounding the telephone dialing for dollars as they say, simply you are working in an office and typically not meeting the clients F2F (face to face)

Outside Sales- means you are meeting the clients/ prospects face to face either by a preset appointment or you are dropping by unannounced hoping the DM (decision maker) is there and has time to talk

There are some older threads either in this section or in the tips section regarding sales, if you haven't already try some searches
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Kwothe

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Pls forget about all the jargon. And get yourself a sales book, it only cost a few bucks, not only you understand the jargon, plus you get a pretty much an idea what a sales job entitle. Dont worry what book you pick up, because all sales go through the same process,no matter what product you sell, you go through the same process.
 

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i was thinking about going into sales too.
but my parents say it's really unreliable.
how much school do i need to jobs in sales?
and how much money does an above average person make?
 

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$500 to $10,000 a month, and some six digits a month of pure profit. Sales on eBay. Idea is simple, get merchandise, sell it. Benefits are great, you don't have to be at work from 9 to 5, plus the more you work the more you make.

Idea is to get merchandise, can do it from U.S. can do it from China, or any other country. The only problem is that if item is unbranded, if customs open it, they will confiscate it.

90% of everything you see on eBay comes from China? :)
 

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Pick up a social psych book. Nothing better than understanding how people work.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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