"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
izza
Master Don Juan
Have big expectations of her. Then help her meet them and more. The best way to make people feel like they are amazing is to expect big things from them, and then help them reach it?Jon55 said:How would you inspire a woman to feel valuable AND special?
(this is assuming non-afc behavior is involved)
Very few people believe in us, help us laugh, help us grow, help us break the routine of sunup sundown. Be a friend to a girl, and expect the exact same thing from her. That is how to bring humanity out of someone.
Izza
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
i swear, i would never get any ***** if i sat around thinking about this kind of ****. no wonder most of you are virgins. would somebody wake the hell up and get some. this is worse than teaching remedial english to a bunch of mongoloid students. at least they have some energy and life in them.
aldaris said:wtf are we doing here?? you afc losers can hardly get inspired about your own hopeless lives. now you wanna inspire another creature? i have read it all on here.
i swear, i would never get any ***** if i sat around thinking about this kind of ****. no wonder most of you are virgins. would somebody wake the hell up and get some. this is worse than teaching remedial english to a bunch of mongoloid students. at least they have some energy and life in them.
Word!
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I'm assuming you've been seeing this chick for quite a while though and she's your GF...
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.