"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
A Question for the DJ's...
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
izza
Master Don Juan
Have big expectations of her. Then help her meet them and more. The best way to make people feel like they are amazing is to expect big things from them, and then help them reach it?Jon55 said:How would you inspire a woman to feel valuable AND special?
(this is assuming non-afc behavior is involved)
Very few people believe in us, help us laugh, help us grow, help us break the routine of sunup sundown. Be a friend to a girl, and expect the exact same thing from her. That is how to bring humanity out of someone.
Izza
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
i swear, i would never get any ***** if i sat around thinking about this kind of ****. no wonder most of you are virgins. would somebody wake the hell up and get some. this is worse than teaching remedial english to a bunch of mongoloid students. at least they have some energy and life in them.
aldaris said:wtf are we doing here?? you afc losers can hardly get inspired about your own hopeless lives. now you wanna inspire another creature? i have read it all on here.
i swear, i would never get any ***** if i sat around thinking about this kind of ****. no wonder most of you are virgins. would somebody wake the hell up and get some. this is worse than teaching remedial english to a bunch of mongoloid students. at least they have some energy and life in them.
Word!
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I'm assuming you've been seeing this chick for quite a while though and she's your GF...
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.