Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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A Question for the DJ's...

Jon55

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How would you inspire a woman to feel valuable AND special?

(this is assuming non-afc behavior is involved)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sherineo

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By just doing what you are supposed to do...hear me again you dont have to try to do it...but you have to become what does it naturally without thinking of it....
 

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By giving her the priveledge of hanging out with me. That's the DJ attitude.
 

izza

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Jon55 said:
How would you inspire a woman to feel valuable AND special?

(this is assuming non-afc behavior is involved)
Have big expectations of her. Then help her meet them and more. The best way to make people feel like they are amazing is to expect big things from them, and then help them reach it?

Very few people believe in us, help us laugh, help us grow, help us break the routine of sunup sundown. Be a friend to a girl, and expect the exact same thing from her. That is how to bring humanity out of someone.

Izza
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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aldaris

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wtf are we doing here?? you afc losers can hardly get inspired about your own hopeless lives. now you wanna inspire another creature? i have read it all on here.

i swear, i would never get any ***** if i sat around thinking about this kind of ****. no wonder most of you are virgins. would somebody wake the hell up and get some. this is worse than teaching remedial english to a bunch of mongoloid students. at least they have some energy and life in them.
 

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aldaris said:
wtf are we doing here?? you afc losers can hardly get inspired about your own hopeless lives. now you wanna inspire another creature? i have read it all on here.

i swear, i would never get any ***** if i sat around thinking about this kind of ****. no wonder most of you are virgins. would somebody wake the hell up and get some. this is worse than teaching remedial english to a bunch of mongoloid students. at least they have some energy and life in them.

Word!
 

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Do the "AFC" thing...buy her some flowers, take her out for a night on the town, then come home and make some schweet schweet loooooove.

I'm assuming you've been seeing this chick for quite a while though and she's your GF...
 

Jon55

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MooseGod and aldaris, did I say I was looking to get some girl back or whatever in my post?

Oh, I didn't? Just checking.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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