Why do so many of you have the mindset that you have to prove yourself to a woman?
What is wrong with you? Do you not realize that having that mindset only makes you weak and "not sexy" to women?
All women are attracted to strength, confidence and dominance.. but most importantly.. men who are better than her and know it. The minute you approach a woman with something to prove (as if you're at a job interview) you demonstrate immediately that you are inferior to her. Because only the inferior have to prove themselves. Imagine proving yourself to a fat girl or a 90 year old woman. Stupid right? So if you have to prove yourself to a hottie then you are saying she is better than you and has higher value than you. If that is the case.. why would she want to date you in the first place? You're a loser.
This should be obvious.
Two things happen to inferior men:
1. They get friendzone as beta orbiters
2. They are put in the beta provider role by "used up" women
What you want to be is a lover/alpha. As this is the only position where you will control the relationship you have with her. In all other positions she will control you and you will be a little appeasing puppy dog following her around and kissing her ass (and making pathetic threads asking other men how best to kiss her ass :crackup: )
In order to be in the lover/alpha position you must be sexual from the start and interact with every woman as if you are better/superior to her (because you are). Otherwise.. you have no business approaching her at all. You're just making a fool of yourself.
And finally.. have some f*cking standards. If a woman is rude, flaky, non-responsive, mean, cold, etc.. why the f*ck do you want to date her you moron? Learn to shrug and walk away when a woman doesn't behave with kindness and strong interest.
When you chase.. its the same as letting her punch you in the face and saying: "Thanks, may I have another?" Why chase someone who treats you like dirt? ZERO bad treatment should be your policy you idiots.
What is wrong with you? Do you not realize that having that mindset only makes you weak and "not sexy" to women?
All women are attracted to strength, confidence and dominance.. but most importantly.. men who are better than her and know it. The minute you approach a woman with something to prove (as if you're at a job interview) you demonstrate immediately that you are inferior to her. Because only the inferior have to prove themselves. Imagine proving yourself to a fat girl or a 90 year old woman. Stupid right? So if you have to prove yourself to a hottie then you are saying she is better than you and has higher value than you. If that is the case.. why would she want to date you in the first place? You're a loser.
This should be obvious.
Two things happen to inferior men:
1. They get friendzone as beta orbiters
2. They are put in the beta provider role by "used up" women
What you want to be is a lover/alpha. As this is the only position where you will control the relationship you have with her. In all other positions she will control you and you will be a little appeasing puppy dog following her around and kissing her ass (and making pathetic threads asking other men how best to kiss her ass :crackup: )
In order to be in the lover/alpha position you must be sexual from the start and interact with every woman as if you are better/superior to her (because you are). Otherwise.. you have no business approaching her at all. You're just making a fool of yourself.
And finally.. have some f*cking standards. If a woman is rude, flaky, non-responsive, mean, cold, etc.. why the f*ck do you want to date her you moron? Learn to shrug and walk away when a woman doesn't behave with kindness and strong interest.
When you chase.. its the same as letting her punch you in the face and saying: "Thanks, may I have another?" Why chase someone who treats you like dirt? ZERO bad treatment should be your policy you idiots.
