A Question for all Men

[Poon King]

Why do so many of you have the mindset that you have to prove yourself to a woman?

What is wrong with you? Do you not realize that having that mindset only makes you weak and "not sexy" to women?

All women are attracted to strength, confidence and dominance.. but most importantly.. men who are better than her and know it. The minute you approach a woman with something to prove (as if you're at a job interview) you demonstrate immediately that you are inferior to her. Because only the inferior have to prove themselves. Imagine proving yourself to a fat girl or a 90 year old woman. Stupid right? So if you have to prove yourself to a hottie then you are saying she is better than you and has higher value than you. If that is the case.. why would she want to date you in the first place? You're a loser.

This should be obvious.

Two things happen to inferior men:

1. They get friendzone as beta orbiters

2. They are put in the beta provider role by "used up" women

What you want to be is a lover/alpha. As this is the only position where you will control the relationship you have with her. In all other positions she will control you and you will be a little appeasing puppy dog following her around and kissing her ass (and making pathetic threads asking other men how best to kiss her ass :crackup: )

In order to be in the lover/alpha position you must be sexual from the start and interact with every woman as if you are better/superior to her (because you are). Otherwise.. you have no business approaching her at all. You're just making a fool of yourself.

And finally.. have some f*cking standards. If a woman is rude, flaky, non-responsive, mean, cold, etc.. why the f*ck do you want to date her you moron? Learn to shrug and walk away when a woman doesn't behave with kindness and strong interest.

When you chase.. its the same as letting her punch you in the face and saying: "Thanks, may I have another?" Why chase someone who treats you like dirt? ZERO bad treatment should be your policy you idiots.

 

[Mr_Stinky]

Beige Phillip Rule #09 – Put yourself first at all costs.

"If you don’t love yourself nobody else will. If you don’t put yourself first, she won’t. If you put a woman first, she won’t appreciate that **** and ends up taking you for a sucker. But if you’re like “**** it I don’t care what you need” they’re grateful for any little thing.

Stop using the W words, “who”, “what”, “when”, “why” – stop giving a ****, you know what happens if you ask them W words? You’re getting taken in and then you feel like you need to know what she thinks. The reason you think you need to know is because you think what she thinks is important and that essentially what she thinks is more important than what you think. In order to not give a **** you’ve got to understand what your value is, this chick is interested in you because she sees some sort of value in you, if she thought you were a failure then she wouldn’t have anything to do with you in the first place, what you’re doing is changing her mind (of the opinion she’s formed that you’re worth knowing) and thus she’s re-evaluating your value."

 

[Tictac]

Thanks macho man.

Feel better now?

 

[Newby 15]

Beta Male Characteristics

Beta male: Makes excuses. Every time there's something he can't do, he has an excuse, and feels like he needs to explain it to those around him.

Beta male: Always needs to blame others, anyone, and anything.

Beta male: Needs affirmation from others. Is obsessed with how others think of him.

Beta male: Always searching for approval and attention.

Beta male: Will never admit to his faults and mistakes.

Beta male: Believe it or not - he has a big ego. But it backfires on him because he is too sensitive and insecure regarding everyone's opinion of him. So he constantly is trying to prove himself by qualifying - or stating his qualifications.

 

[adam225]

Another great thread PK. Cheers....