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A question about weights from a beginner

LionFox

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When people talk about weightlifting, they always say I can benchpress 200 lbs, or 250 or whatever, or I can lift that much..

My question is how exactly is that calculated? I know this sounds dumb, but I'm serious.

For example, If I'm using an olympic bar bell that weights 45 pounds by itself, and then a 20 pound free weight on each in, is that considered lifting 85? or just 40?

What if you are using a smith press machine with the rolling bar adjustments vs. free lifting?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

KiLLer

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Usually when they say "I bench 100 lb." they usually mean 2 plates that are 50 lb. each. People don't really count bar inside.

I'll leave the rest of the questions to other.
 

DJ Girevik

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Don't listen to KiLLer, he's full of crap. Around here, everyone who talks about weightlifting totals, bench or otherwise, includes the bar in the total. So, you're lifting 85 pounds.
 

misunderstood??

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Yes. most people include the bar when they talk about how much they can lift. If what they say sounds kinda suspicious then u can ask questions. Like if you someone said they can bench 90lbs, odds are they mean 90lbs + bar because it wouldn't be convient to put 27.5lbs on each side of the bar. If the weight seems a lil' heavy then they could be talking about bench press but most people you asked what their max bench was would say the weight of the dumbells + the bar. So if you want to tell people who much u can bench, include the bar.
 
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