“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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A question about the world's greatest PUA

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Just because Mystery is famous for teaching people how to pick up women doesn't mean he's the best at it. That's like saying Will Smith is the best actor in the world just because he's one of the highest paid. But I've seen some absolutely amazing actors that are nowhere near famous.

Believe it or not there are plenty of men who can pick up women insanely well, who don't use aliases or belong to some forum or mastermind pick-up group.

Like I said, guys like Mystery have established themselves as experts because they do this for a LIVING. Can he pull more chicks than me in the club scene in LA? Probably. Can I get laid by equally hot girls in my own neighborhood with less effort? I think so. I don't have to wear any ridiculous flair either.

This isn't a race. The only guys that are actually competing are the "gurus" who think they have something to prove, but the only data they have to compare is their own.

:up:

I gotta c/s this

I know a couple guys who could give Mystery a run for his money and they are not famous/rich or anything
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Mystery is 35 now.. he is slowing down.. even after 10 years into the game, he is still ranked number 1 PUA.. so obviously he deserves some credit for that.

He dated #55 on the FHM magazine's top 100 supermodels.

Keeping in consideration that he was a simple ordinary guy without any celeb fame at that time, i'd say the case is closed.
 

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He dated #55 on the FHM magazine's top 100 supermodels.

Keeping in consideration that he was a simple ordinary guy without any celeb fame at that time, i'd say the case is closed.
Wow you still don't get it. He's ranked #1 among self-proclaimed PUA's that actually care about submitting "stats" about the women they pick up.

And how does dating a supermodel make you a good PUA? Do you think her extra hot body changes her response patterns from any other women? Hue Hefner's dated many supermodels. How come he isn't #1? Because he refuses to compete in a stupid underground penis showing game? Maybe.
 

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I don't really care if he is #1 or if he isn't. I am plenty happy with just learning his method, making it my own, then just having fun.

It is silly in my opinion to argue over if he really is the best. I know i put it in the title of this post but it doesn't really matter.

I started to read his book and im finding it interesting so hopefully i will finish it by tommorow :up:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'm just saying, don't take everything these guys tell you as law. Practice and improvise, and you will get much better and soon find yourself ditching many of their so-called golden rules.
 

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dbot said:
I'm just saying, don't take everything these guys tell you as law. Practice and improvise, and you will get much better and soon find yourself ditching many of their so-called golden rules.
I guess we can all agree on that.
 

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librito said:
Here is the list of the top 3 pick up artists according to thundercatseductionlair.com in 2007.... be aware that this website is recognised as the sole authority ranking the top puas and has being ranking them since 2003. The trophy for the top pua from 2008 will be awarded later on.
1...mistery
2...style
3...afc adam

If you know more about ranking puas than this website than you can argue against the fact that mistery is ranked the number one pua at this moment....and if you are going to say that there are better than mistery at picking up women at this moment then mention the name of the guy so your argument would gain some credibility and we won't think that you are just talking feces.
Heh.

Mystery, Style, AFC Adam, and most of the other names on the list you mention are friends of mine ('cept that guy in last place, #10, of course - he's no pickup artist!) and good guys at that...

But I don't believe than anyone amongst us considers it significant how well 'ranked' we are according to outside estimation.

Everyone can learn something from anyone - although most often, what they will learn is what NOT to emulate!

Johnny Soporno
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Johnny Soporno said:
But I don't believe than anyone amongst us considers it significant how well 'ranked' we are according to outside estimation.
Johnny Soporno
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"we"??... who ever mentioned you in this thread? lol...
 

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daygameguy, Johnny Soporno is well known in the "pickup industry"... (or whatever anyone wants to call it)

dbot, I agree with everything you said mate.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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mystery aka ERIK is not the best.........he teaches........but tons of guys can bag more chics than this guy.

He just put it to a workable method......I am a fan of mysterys and I adore his show........but He aint the best.

Most famous YES, most dedicated.......YES, instructed the most students.......YOU BETCHA, the best at picking up women..........hmmmm not sure about that at all.
 

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daygameguy said:
Johnny Soporno said:
But I don't believe than anyone amongst us considers it significant how well 'ranked' we are according to outside estimation.
"we"??... who ever mentioned you in this thread? lol...
That would have been me - when I said "anyone amongst us", that was meant explicitly to include me.

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who is ranked number 10?
This fat, balding, old guy:
http://www.thundercatseductionlair.com/2008/01/08/the-top-10-pick-up-artists-of-2007/
 

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Johnny Soporno said:
That would have been me - when I said "anyone amongst us", that was meant explicitly to include me.



This fat, balding, old guy:
http://www.thundercatseductionlair.com/2008/01/08/the-top-10-pick-up-artists-of-2007/

Johnny S.

Riddle me this, why do so many pua guys charge so much for their class's and seminars? don't they realize that a lot of afc's can't afford this? you would think, most of them being former afc's would recogize this and do it for the love of the game and not money

anyway just my .2cents
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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COD said:
mystery aka ERIK is not the best.........he teaches........but tons of guys can bag more chics than this guy.

He just put it to a workable method......I am a fan of mysterys and I adore his show........but He aint the best.

Most famous YES, most dedicated.......YES, instructed the most students.......YOU BETCHA, the best at picking up women..........hmmmm not sure about that at all.
I agree with you on that.

He does use some magic/illusion gimmicks for building attraction, he also tends to use some of his celeb status, which he should, but all of this counts against him when it comes to ranking.

I agree that Style and AFC Adam and even some of the other people in the community may have equal or better skills at the moment. So best PUA title might fluctuate...

But he was the first to come up with this method, he had NO other seduction method at that time to refer to, and all these other PUAs are using their own version of the MM, and during his absolute prime, Mystery was the only guy with this level of game, and since he is the main inventor/father of pickup, he should be called the world's greatest...if not the world's best PUA.
 
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