"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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A question about random hook ups

BongDuy

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How many of you guys who actually hook up with a chick do a little Q and A before going through with it? Let me start by defining hooking up by actually having sex.

Do you guys get curious how often that girl has been around? I can't help but want reassurance that the chick won't have herps or and STD. A condom is nice and all, but I can't be the only one who wants to know whether or not I should be hooking up with this chick at all.

I can't help but think that asking about a girl's sexual past is a bit of a mood kill. Is there any subtle way of going about this?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SomeFungi

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It's a good idea to try and slip in some Q&A, but it is damned hard. The problem is that if the chick is up for completely random hookups, then there's a good chance she's got something anyways.
 

firelord

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Hot chicks can get sick too. Play it safe.. But as a DJ, I would only advice you to abstain from casual sex and move on.
 
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