"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A question about random hook ups

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BongDuy

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How many of you guys who actually hook up with a chick do a little Q and A before going through with it? Let me start by defining hooking up by actually having sex.

Do you guys get curious how often that girl has been around? I can't help but want reassurance that the chick won't have herps or and STD. A condom is nice and all, but I can't be the only one who wants to know whether or not I should be hooking up with this chick at all.

I can't help but think that asking about a girl's sexual past is a bit of a mood kill. Is there any subtle way of going about this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SomeFungi

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It's a good idea to try and slip in some Q&A, but it is damned hard. The problem is that if the chick is up for completely random hookups, then there's a good chance she's got something anyways.
 
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firelord

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Hot chicks can get sick too. Play it safe.. But as a DJ, I would only advice you to abstain from casual sex and move on.
 
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