"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A question about random hook ups

BongDuy

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How many of you guys who actually hook up with a chick do a little Q and A before going through with it? Let me start by defining hooking up by actually having sex.

Do you guys get curious how often that girl has been around? I can't help but want reassurance that the chick won't have herps or and STD. A condom is nice and all, but I can't be the only one who wants to know whether or not I should be hooking up with this chick at all.

I can't help but think that asking about a girl's sexual past is a bit of a mood kill. Is there any subtle way of going about this?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SomeFungi

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It's a good idea to try and slip in some Q&A, but it is damned hard. The problem is that if the chick is up for completely random hookups, then there's a good chance she's got something anyways.
 

firelord

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Hot chicks can get sick too. Play it safe.. But as a DJ, I would only advice you to abstain from casual sex and move on.
 
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