So I think we all agree that we shouldn't show our interest too much, act indifferent, push/pull, hard to get, etc. Or else, the girls will think they got us in their pockets then they lose interests. But one thing that's on my mind, aren't things like asking her to a date, making eye contact, laugh at her jokes, kino, etc. show them that we're interested in them? And consider the strong woman intuition. It's not easy to keep them guessing is it?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
A question about hiding interest
- Thread starter Fela Kuti
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