So I think we all agree that we shouldn't show our interest too much, act indifferent, push/pull, hard to get, etc. Or else, the girls will think they got us in their pockets then they lose interests. But one thing that's on my mind, aren't things like asking her to a date, making eye contact, laugh at her jokes, kino, etc. show them that we're interested in them? And consider the strong woman intuition. It's not easy to keep them guessing is it?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
A question about hiding interest
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