So I think we all agree that we shouldn't show our interest too much, act indifferent, push/pull, hard to get, etc. Or else, the girls will think they got us in their pockets then they lose interests. But one thing that's on my mind, aren't things like asking her to a date, making eye contact, laugh at her jokes, kino, etc. show them that we're interested in them? And consider the strong woman intuition. It's not easy to keep them guessing is it?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
A question about hiding interest
- Thread starter Fela Kuti
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