"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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a qestion about testostorone and chicks

Deadly_Assassin

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Hey I just joined up a gym a couple of months ago. And I am slowly putting some weight on. But I have noticed this chick in the gym (Not that I am interested in her ) Shes nearly 30 or over but shes a pro body builder. Shes really cut.

First question, Cos shes a body builder so she must have some pretty high testostorone levels compared to average girls, is this gonna change her taste in men? dont bring the age into the equation

My second question is when chicks start to excericse like do heaps of running, and do some self defence classes or the ones that are really atheletic, can this increase their testostorone?

any links to this topic would be good.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm no expert but I think yes the bodybuilder chick will have above average testosterone levels, so may become a bit of a lesbian, that's kinda stereotypical though.

As for normal girls, no I don't think running/doing self defence etc will drastically effect their testosterone levels, you'd have to take whatever you were doing to a very high level for any real difference to show.

Having said most proffesional women football/soccer/rugby players look very manly/lesbianated, that might well be down to testosterone etc.

I really don't know the scientific answer though, maybe you should ask girls in the gym if they still find guys attractive after working out for a few months?!
 
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Originally posted by Deadly_Assassin
Hey I just joined up a gym a couple of months ago. And I am slowly putting some weight on. But I have noticed this chick in the gym (Not that I am interested in her ) Shes nearly 30 or over but shes a pro body builder. Shes really cut.

First question, Cos shes a body builder so she must have some pretty high testostorone levels compared to average girls, is this gonna change her taste in men? dont bring the age into the equation

My second question is when chicks start to excericse like do heaps of running, and do some self defence classes or the ones that are really atheletic, can this increase their testostorone?

any links to this topic would be good.
If she is on the Pro circuit then she is so full of pharmacology that sticking ya dyck into her will cause your own muscles to grow. That means she is prolly/actually definately using one form of steroids and estrogen blockers and a gamult of other things.

testo in women is way lower than mens, although some women do have a bit higher levels than the average female. These women are rarely attractive and will look manly to begin with.
 

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She's a bodybuilder? Stay away. Not only will you have ***** lips hanging on your **** before you enter, but your also going to have to question her on the phone when you think its Ray calling to have a beer with you on the weekend, not to mention the fact that she's going to be a total dominator with those test levels.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What about Serena Williams? She looks pretty manly too, I wonder if she takes roids...
 

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If she is on the Pro circuit then she is so full of pharmacology that sticking ya dyck into her will cause your own muscles to grow.
hehehehe
 

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Originally posted by il_duce
What about Serena Williams? She looks pretty manly too, I wonder if she takes roids...
I agree. I can't understand why guys on ESPN are drooling over her all of a sudden.
 

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WRONG!!

High Test. levels do not make women look "manly" nor "turn them lesbo"!

High test. levels make women HORNEY!! No test., no desire for sex!!

For what it's worth, "high test. levels" in a woman are miniscule levels compared to a man.
 

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looking cut is simply a lack of fat, and that doesn't come from male hormones, but rather from diet and exercise. Big muscles however can be the result of hard work, good sleep habits, and good nutrition. However, some people have been known to not rely on mere nutrition and supplement it with steroids.

As far as her taste in men goes, she probably likes confident men, you know, the kind that strike up a short conversation and ask her out on a date if they're interested in her. So what's the hold up?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Fatality

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I hope you are more muscular than her. If not, I don't think she would go for you.
 

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Originally posted by Fatality
I agree. I can't understand why guys on ESPN are drooling over her all of a sudden.
THey have too ... if they only drool over the Russian's they'll be accused of racism.
 
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