Dongfu
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What is the copyright policy here. Can I post the same posts I write here at other forum sites. Alot of what I post here comes from my own book, and related material.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
A Q for the moderators
- Thread starter Dongfu
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Heart Break Kid
Master Don Juan
Although we are reasonable people here at sosuave and usually ask for permission you must realize that anything you post here belongs to the site. As long as you acknowledge this you're free to post your material. It's more a technicality than anything so I would not worry.. 
Dongfu
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Thanks guys