Dongfu
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What is the copyright policy here. Can I post the same posts I write here at other forum sites. Alot of what I post here comes from my own book, and related material.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
A Q for the moderators
- Thread starter Dongfu
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Heart Break Kid
Master Don Juan
Although we are reasonable people here at sosuave and usually ask for permission you must realize that anything you post here belongs to the site. As long as you acknowledge this you're free to post your material. It's more a technicality than anything so I would not worry.. 
Dongfu
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Thanks guys