"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ARGH_Dude

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I've been going out with my girlfriend for about a week and a half now. It turns out she had a really strong crush on me (she even told me) and I also had one on her. I've already made kino with her (put my arm around her & held her hand) and she gladly accepted without hesitating. She seemed pretty comfortable around me because she even put her head on my shoulder when we were walking around on Wednesday night. One thing I noticed on before we had to go was she offered me a piece of chewing gum and she had one herself. I didn't think much of this apart from generosity at the time, but afterwards I realised maybe she was expecting a kiss. Maybe. Maybe it was nothing, but you can never be too sure. ;)

Well, tomorrow I'll be spending 9 hours with her downtown and we'll be having a great time (as usual), but I was wondering if I should go for a kiss or hold out a little longer? Something may spur off in the heat of the moment kinda thing, but I'm just making a back up plan just incase. Any suggestions? :confused:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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blienk

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Yes, go for a kiss. Week and half is more than enough time.
 

JSH

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So let me get this straight, bruv, so she is your gf but you have not kissed her yet. Now i dunno how you do things in (im assumin the states) wherever you are but here in the sunny UofK :D , the kiss starts the period of a relationship, before that you are just close friends. Just go for it, if you never kissed before dont sweat, ull either pick it up off her or shell never have done it (unlikely if u think she wants a kiss) and then you wont be bad as she cant compare you to anyone.

Just go for it, nothing bad can happen - she obviously likes you if you have some kind of formal defined relationship.

Although there is another half explanation, ur breath stank and she a) couldnt deal with it or b) wanted a kiss.

Oh yeah get rid of the gum before a kiss.
 

The Antichrist_Star

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You better kiss her champ... before I do. ;)
 

ARGH_Dude

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Yep, we kissed on that night...a whole 30 minutes of enjoyment :D. Only problem was the chewing gum, which you mentioned. ;) We were joking alot about it, but now she wants to kiss me everytime we're alone together, which is great. :cool: I've already met her dad and he's cool with us being together, so it looks like things are running pretty smooth. :D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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oakraiderz2

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It took you a week and a half to get one kiss? Thats a bit pecular but whatever floats your boat.
 

Luscious

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You should have kissed when you first started 'seeing each other'.

She wants you to lead. So lead.
 
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