“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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A problem

steve_erkle

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A problem i have is that when I am in a one-on-one situation I'm terrible. In groups I'm really funny and have a great time and I don't have many problems. But when im with one person, male or female, it gets awkward and i get nervous and freeze up. Any tips or suggestions on how to get past this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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WalkingStick

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Yeah, it's often harder to find things to talk about one-on-one.

Try practicing by focusing on one person for a little bit when you're in a group.
 

Don't Panic

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It seems to me like what gets it awkward for you is that when you're in a group you're having fun and simply not caring about outcomes whereas when you are with women you do(i know, we all secretly do).

You can try to apply the state of mind you have in a group in a one-on-one situation, you are just out to have fun and have a good time it doesn't really matter if you're gonna make it with girl x or y be confident and work on yourself. Stop worrying too much.
 

Xptboy

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weird i'm the opposite... in groups I let other people take over, one on one I find it easy to continue any type of conversation.
 
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