"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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steve_erkle

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A problem i have is that when I am in a one-on-one situation I'm terrible. In groups I'm really funny and have a great time and I don't have many problems. But when im with one person, male or female, it gets awkward and i get nervous and freeze up. Any tips or suggestions on how to get past this?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yeah, it's often harder to find things to talk about one-on-one.

Try practicing by focusing on one person for a little bit when you're in a group.
 
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Don't Panic

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It seems to me like what gets it awkward for you is that when you're in a group you're having fun and simply not caring about outcomes whereas when you are with women you do(i know, we all secretly do).

You can try to apply the state of mind you have in a group in a one-on-one situation, you are just out to have fun and have a good time it doesn't really matter if you're gonna make it with girl x or y be confident and work on yourself. Stop worrying too much.
 
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weird i'm the opposite... in groups I let other people take over, one on one I find it easy to continue any type of conversation.
 
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