"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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a problem a little more real than many of you are use to..

twentee

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life, dude, is 50 years or more, as an ADULT. so 20k would be $330 a year, unless SAFELY invested. The US and many countries have 5% or more inflation EVERY year, so if you make 6% per year on an investment and are taxed 17%, you make NOTHING, beyond what inflation takes. So, frankly, you are full of it with your 20k supports you for life claim.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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speed dawg

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Sounds like goundra/twentee forgot which account he was logged in under. You nimrods must be out of your mind if you think I'm going to relocate to Asia from the United States. Asinine. I'm thinking goundra is some type of human trafficking pervert.

How did this thread go from cola trying to move out of the hood, to truck driving and moving to prostitute heaven, complete with how to protect yourself from gooks with machetes?
 

goundra

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**** your neck, punk. all threads move in any direction that any posters want them to move. If you don't like it, just don't read it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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