"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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a pretty damn good personal ad...

How do you rate that personal ad?

  • Amazing... this guy is gonna score like crazy!

    Votes: 3 33.3%
  • Ummm... my 8 year old brother could write an ad like that

    Votes: 4 44.4%
  • Wait a second... that IS my 8 year old brother's ad! :)

    Votes: 2 22.2%

  • Total voters
    9

Jason King

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Hey guys, I found this at one of those personals sites. Just goes to show you that shopping your competition is useful. I bet this guy gets tons of responses based on his creativity. What do you think?

Here's the personal:

Lost Smile---Reward For Recovery

I'm putting out a world wide web bulletin to get everyone's help. You see, I've lost my smile. I'm not really myself without it. I have a couple leads that give me hope that it may have been found, including a vague description. She appears to be between 26 and 40 years old, but may appear younger than her age. She at least 5'7" (I am 6'), not a bbw, but doesn't live at the gym either.

She has high-maintenance looks with a down-to-earth attitude, values, and personality. She loves rock & roll and may be found at concerts. I have conflicting reports that she's either a blonde or a brunette. She's intelligent with her own career and not dependent on someone to support her.

If this person can be found, I can offer a reward of lifetime devotion, long, slow kisses that last for days, midnight massages, a partner that loves to cook and doesn't mind sharing in the household chores, someone to wash your back, a shoulder to lean on, and someone who will hold you at night. If you think you may have found my smile, please e-mail me as I really need it to be myself. Thanks.


Keep in mind guys... this guy is probably in his mid 30's, so he's not cruising for 18 year olds. I've used the personals to snag at least 20 women (those are the ones that I actually dated), and I can tell you that this is a pretty killer ad.

Jason King

Related article - How I used Bridge Theory to bring over 40 back to my place... on the first date.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Jason King

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My looks are average.. 6-7'ish. What makes the difference is the way my ad was written, and the manner in which I replied to their emails.

I busted their chops, kept it light and I didn't take no for an answer when I wanted to meet. I don't let girls give me the blowoff when I want to move from keyboard to an in-person meeting.

My current GF tried to blow me off with that, and I had none of it. Now I've been in relationship with her for a year. Good stuff :)

It just takes dedication to answer a few ads per day, and having a few good pics of yourself. Be creative, not just headlshots.

Jason
 
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