A present for her birthday - should I?

[nvictor]

Djs,

Next week is her birthday. Well you know after
reading "Don't buy her gifts", "Don't be nice guy",
"Don't be predictable", etc...

I''m scared. I don't want to turn into a wussy.
Right now, I'm building the attraction to a higher
point.

What do you think about it?

 

[Grimple]

It's her birthday for christ sake.. of course you can get her a gift. Giving her something for her birthday isnt going to turn you into a *****.

 

[nvictor]

Well, in fact there are three birthday in the same
week . First girl is not so important. Second one
is not important at all. Third one is important.

 

[nvictor]

That's what I was thinking .

Another question. How to deliver that gift in
a unique way. Because you see, she's quite
of popular. I know she will recieve plenty.

 

[WC2]

Oh she isn't even your girlfriend? Have you even had sex? If these are both no's then there should be no gift.

Anyone who tells you to get a gift for a girl you've only kissed or only kissed, has been rejected just as well. If she is a confident woman, she will nicely thank you for the gift and nicely move you into the friend catogory.

You ask why? Because she wants a man she has to work for. She did absolutely nothing to recieve this gift. You in a sense, are working for her. Don't put the ***** on a pedastal.

Instead, you know it's her birthday and she's most likely in a good mood, so give her a call, tell her happy birthday, and set a date up later that week.

best of luck

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Djs,

Next week is her birthday. Well you know after
reading "Don't buy her gifts", "Don't be nice guy",
"Don't be predictable", etc...

I''m scared. I don't want to turn into a wussy.
Right now, I'm building the attraction to a higher
point.

What do you think about it?

I agree with WC2. If your not fuvking her and she's not your gf, then there's no need to get her a gift. Just wish her a happy birthday and seduce her.





PIMP

 

[Charm&Style]

wtf you guyz are on crack and retarded. Have you guys ever had a girl as your friend...or is that against your morals.

:crackup:


Bro (nvictor) if shes your friend, get her something, nothing extravegant but something thoughtful and sexy.

I remember for one of my "girl-friends" i bought her a gift set of "sexy-lotion" from victorias secret and at the bottem of it i slipped a thong.

She loved it and had the craziest crush on me afterwards. But then again im a man of charm and charisma :nervous:


haha peace

.

 

[flexion_]

If you have romantic interest in her and haven't had sex with her then do not buy her a gift. The general rule here is never give a women something for nothing - otherwise they will think you are supplicating.

Heck if she is a close platonic friend or a LTR then sure buy her something nice.

 

[Charm&Style]

Hey Pimp what part of the OC are you from bro..??

 

[nvictor]

Perfect. Now I get it. No gift for her (for the moment)
just a call.