"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A present for her birthday - should I?

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nvictor

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Djs,

Next week is her birthday. Well you know after
reading "Don't buy her gifts", "Don't be nice guy",
"Don't be predictable", etc...

I''m scared. I don't want to turn into a wussy.
Right now, I'm building the attraction to a higher
point.

What do you think about it?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It's her birthday for christ sake.. of course you can get her a gift. Giving her something for her birthday isnt going to turn you into a *****.
 
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nvictor

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Well, in fact there are three birthday in the same
week :(. First girl is not so important. Second one
is not important at all. Third one is important.
 
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nvictor

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That's what I was thinking :).

Another question. How to deliver that gift in
a unique way. Because you see, she's quite
of popular. I know she will recieve plenty.
 
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Oh she isn't even your girlfriend? Have you even had sex? If these are both no's then there should be no gift.

Anyone who tells you to get a gift for a girl you've only kissed or only kissed, has been rejected just as well. If she is a confident woman, she will nicely thank you for the gift and nicely move you into the friend catogory.

You ask why? Because she wants a man she has to work for. She did absolutely nothing to recieve this gift. You in a sense, are working for her. Don't put the ***** on a pedastal.

Instead, you know it's her birthday and she's most likely in a good mood, so give her a call, tell her happy birthday, and set a date up later that week.

best of luck
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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nvictor said:
Djs,

Next week is her birthday. Well you know after
reading "Don't buy her gifts", "Don't be nice guy",
"Don't be predictable", etc...

I''m scared. I don't want to turn into a wussy.
Right now, I'm building the attraction to a higher
point.

What do you think about it?
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I agree with WC2. If your not fuvking her and she's not your gf, then there's no need to get her a gift. Just wish her a happy birthday and seduce her.





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wtf you guyz are on crack and retarded. Have you guys ever had a girl as your friend...or is that against your morals.

:crackup:


Bro (nvictor) if shes your friend, get her something, nothing extravegant but something thoughtful and sexy.

I remember for one of my "girl-friends" i bought her a gift set of "sexy-lotion" from victorias secret and at the bottem of it i slipped a thong.

She loved it and had the craziest crush on me afterwards. But then again im a man of charm and charisma :nervous:


haha peace

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If you have romantic interest in her and haven't had sex with her then do not buy her a gift. The general rule here is never give a women something for nothing - otherwise they will think you are supplicating.

Heck if she is a close platonic friend or a LTR then sure buy her something nice.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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