"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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A post to all my fellow high schoolers...

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Guys,

Come on. You gotta realize that your not even in the real world yet. You still got time, you still got time. You see the adults on here that are making changes, and your pissed that your not getting anywhere?

Cry me a f'in river. I've come further then half this forum ever will because of one thing:

Dedication

I WANT to change and I still do. My life is devoted to my many goals. Every day I'm getting closer and closer to them. I spend hours on end reading to better myself. Do you?

I'm sick of the whining and the BS. If you hvae a problem it's because of your mental attitude. Your thinking negatively, not positively. If you want to change then put in the effort. No one gives a sh1t whether you become the 2nd trump or the 2nd John Doe of the week. If you want to show the world who you are, it's up to you.

Look up a book called Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. It's brought out the best in me, and continues to as we speak.

I want to see this entire forum shape up. This is not a forum for whiners this a forum for MEN. Are you one? If your not, I want you to log out and never come back here again.

R3N
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Amen to this post.



























Good sh!t R3N3GAD3.
 
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Once you accomplish something TRULY great, you will see that most "problems" you had with girls and such are not worthy of being called "problems".

I have had the balls to admit to myself I was wrong, and change it. More than once. And I am damn proud of that.

I still seek self-improvement and ways of bettering myself.

If you are not satisfied, find out why the hell not and fix it.
 
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on the book it says a black choice, i am white should i read it?
 
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Humans are gentically 99.9% equal. I don't care if you have a third arm. The books for you as it is me.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by AFK Protector
This is the guy that went like 200 days without beating off. Listen to him!:D

Great book btw. I skimmed it at Borders and picked it up.
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You two need a life...
 
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AFK,

Yes, I forgot about using that. If that's not dedication I don't know what is :p

Vincent,

You read my thread. My goal was to attract attention to the thread. So, congradulations ;)
 
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Originally posted by N1PlayerTillIDie
i ain't tryin to start sh!t but sorry most of you guys sound immature. Some of the things that women look for is that you know how to have fun as you being humorous and sh!t and you being able to act like a Man let me say it again man as an adult in surtain situations. I know it might sound wack but you ain't got a choice. Guy's do yourself a favor and get yourself some b!ches that you could pose as friends to and instead use them as lab animals to see how they react to sh!t in every possible situation. Try to get into their mind. And after you'll acomplish that you'll be like me.

Cuz look i'm fiteen soon to be 16 and i've had 19 g/f which i've f-u-c-k-e-d and 10 one night stands [for those who don't know what this means it means that you **** a girl and forget her.] plus i also ****ed a 23 year old hot ass collage chick... that's wright from the real world.

Just guy's don't give up on this and try what i've suggested cuz i was using this technique before i found this site that's wright i learned by myself and trust me it works.
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As much as you could use some writing courses ;), I see what your getting at.

This board has alot to offer but no ones putting it to good use .I also, for my entire life have dated older women. The trick for me was KEEPING them though. One night stands are fine, but it's keeping them.

You, have found your style and been able to put it to good use. Most of this board isn't even trying. That's what I get annoyed about.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by R3N3GAD3
Vincent,

You read my thread. My goal was to attract attention to the thread. So, congradulations ;)
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I was refering to your little escapades in the archive. I never really read this as to not being in highschool :p
 
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Originally posted by Vincent
I was refering to your little escapades in the archive. I never really read this as to not being in highschool :p
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Hey, once you do the same, then you can talk ;)
 
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Which book should I obtain? There are many variaties.
 
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