CableLight
Master Don Juan
I've seen this said many times in the past, even said it myself once or twice, so I think I'll say it again.
You guys want to know the real "secret" of having a good life? The real way to ensure you have a good time in high school and everything after? Well, before we get to that, ask yourself a few questions on why you came to this site:
1) Did I come here to get girls?
2) Did I come here to change myself?
3) Did I come here to learn?
If you said "yes" to #1 and #2, then this post is surely for you. If you said "yes" to #3, then you're on the right track, so keep reading to keep learning.
Guys - Despite what you might hear, might see at first, and might initially intend, don't use this site to get laid. Don't use this site to get better with women, or get more "friends." Don't even use this site to "tweak your image," per se. Use this site to learn what people have done to improve and enjoy their overall lives, and go from there.
Truth be told, you - in 100% honesty - do not need a girl in your life to make you happy. It's nice, but it's not the "master key" to unlocking happiness and fulfillment. I know some people put a lot of stock into it, but just drop that for a moment. Drop it, and ask yourself "What are all the other things (besides chicks) I like to do, that really add meaning to my day?"
Those are the things you should concentrate on - doing all the things you like to do as often as possible. When you do the things you enjoy, you become happy. Sacrificing everything you are and everything you embody in order to become what you think is something other people will idolize is foolish. If you put too much stock into things you don't necessarily need or necessarily care about, and do things you aren't necessarily too wild about isn't going to make you happy. And a happy person is much more attractive than a non-happy person.
So, yes, improve your social skills, improve your overall outlook on life, and keep the rest of the things you enjoy the same. If you don't like football, don't start playing because you think chicks dig football players. If you enjoy working on computers, don't stop doing that because you think you'll come off as a nerd. And definately don't go for the people who only like you for putting on a face and doing things you're not enthusiastic about. Who cares if the one "HB10" you saw at the mall isn't your type? You'll be infinately more satisfied by finding someone who is. And, with your honed social thinking and knoweldge of people in general, that hottie who does fit your criteria doesn't stand a chance
You guys want to know the real "secret" of having a good life? The real way to ensure you have a good time in high school and everything after? Well, before we get to that, ask yourself a few questions on why you came to this site:
1) Did I come here to get girls?
2) Did I come here to change myself?
3) Did I come here to learn?
If you said "yes" to #1 and #2, then this post is surely for you. If you said "yes" to #3, then you're on the right track, so keep reading to keep learning.
Guys - Despite what you might hear, might see at first, and might initially intend, don't use this site to get laid. Don't use this site to get better with women, or get more "friends." Don't even use this site to "tweak your image," per se. Use this site to learn what people have done to improve and enjoy their overall lives, and go from there.
Truth be told, you - in 100% honesty - do not need a girl in your life to make you happy. It's nice, but it's not the "master key" to unlocking happiness and fulfillment. I know some people put a lot of stock into it, but just drop that for a moment. Drop it, and ask yourself "What are all the other things (besides chicks) I like to do, that really add meaning to my day?"
Those are the things you should concentrate on - doing all the things you like to do as often as possible. When you do the things you enjoy, you become happy. Sacrificing everything you are and everything you embody in order to become what you think is something other people will idolize is foolish. If you put too much stock into things you don't necessarily need or necessarily care about, and do things you aren't necessarily too wild about isn't going to make you happy. And a happy person is much more attractive than a non-happy person.
So, yes, improve your social skills, improve your overall outlook on life, and keep the rest of the things you enjoy the same. If you don't like football, don't start playing because you think chicks dig football players. If you enjoy working on computers, don't stop doing that because you think you'll come off as a nerd. And definately don't go for the people who only like you for putting on a face and doing things you're not enthusiastic about. Who cares if the one "HB10" you saw at the mall isn't your type? You'll be infinately more satisfied by finding someone who is. And, with your honed social thinking and knoweldge of people in general, that hottie who does fit your criteria doesn't stand a chance