"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A "player" whose macking went out of control

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... a darker side of Jenkins’ life began emerging Tuesday when authorities accused the Lacombe man of second-degree homicide in the bizarre death of former co-worker Jennifer DeBlonde Jacob.
Jacob, 37, of Covington, died Oct. 7 at a Lacombe fishing camp where Jenkins was living. Emergency medical personnel answered a call about an unresponsive female but were unable to revive her. St. Tammany Parish Coroner Dr. Charles Preston said that she died from a lethal combination of illegal and prescription drugs, including heroin, methamphetamine and GHB, and ruled the death a homicide.
But the co-worker, who spoke on condition of anonymity, said that Jenkins was also viewed as a “player” who would zero in on women who were going through bad divorces or who were very young. His nickname, according to the co-worker, was “Jake the Snake.”
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"Jake the Snake", LOL...
 
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