"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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GearsGod310

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currently spinning 3 plates.
one of my newer plates loves to text and send me funny memes. We been seeing each other for about 4 months now And we text everyday. My other plates are like this too but this one is the ones I get along with the best. I been seeing her 1 time every week.
I can tell she’s really starting to care for me and possibly starting to catch feelings. She already introduced me to a good amount of her family and friends. And always wants to meet new friends of hers.
i been ignoring her messages all day. I just want to break the normality of things. I found that when you’re too routine chicks lose interest. But her interest is really high she’s almost always initiates contact.

this is what we do. We text all week and then we usually go to a lake or to the pool, get food, or hang with her friends and have drinks then she comes over and I bang her.

shes been texting me all day blowing me up and sending me snaps.
right now she even sent me a text saying “wtf are you doing”?

how would you handle this. I don’t wanna play games but I don’t want this chick to think she got it like that.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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“I don’t want things to get serious between us”
“I’m not looking for a relationship right now and I feel it’s heading there”
“We’re moving too fast”
“I’m only looking for fun right now”
“I want us to keep things casual”
“I need some space”
”I’m not ready yet”
“I’m not ready for a relationship yet”
“I’m not looking for anything serious right now”
*do nothing and she’ll take the hint*
 

Henry Schweiss

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You are already playing.

I believe that you have also developed some affection for her, otherwise, you would not spend energy creating a post about something so simple. Do not take things so seriously. Follow your will. Every pressure creates a back pressure.

Put a ring on her.
Just don't forget the mask and a little alcohol gel during the process, isn't it @backseatjuan?
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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CBear

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You don't want this chick to think she got it like that? I think you need to evaluate how you truly feel because hanging out with her every week for 4 months, texting her all day every day, and meeting/hanging out with her family and friends tells me something different. Actions over words. She's already built expectations because of these things that are mentioned. If you really felt this way, you'd very simply have a talk with her saying that you'd want to spend less time seeing and texting her and that's the best advice you're going to get but something tells me that you and her don't want to do that.
 
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