“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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A Piece Of Advice.....

Cassanova_Child

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dont listen to the friends of the girl your after. just dont. dont let them tell you that they're not interested, or not your type, etc.... its bull****. they probably want you themselves, or REALLY hate you. girls are *****y and ****blocking fellows. i just realized that his happened to me (the girl i was after told me she would have hooked up with me if i had made a move).
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Triple T

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don't disrespect her friends either. :up:

If your friends with them they will say good things about you to her, and girls always talk to each other about boys and stuff. They'll approve of you to her and help your chances of getting with her.

Trust me. If it were not for me gaming all of my current girlfriend's friends, and getting them thinking highly of me, I probally would have had a harder time getting my girl. But it all worked out :cool:
 

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You shouldn't be meeting her friends. Your business is with her, and her alone.
 

Triple T

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Rhoto said:
You shouldn't be meeting her friends.
What so bad about meeting her friends?

Your not hurting your chances are you? Your just widening your social circle, widening the group of people you know. I see no harm in meeting with her friends?
Please explain.
 

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Make friends with them if you can, makes things easier ;)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Triple T said:
Please explain.
You're in high school bud, that comment doesn't really apply to you. (And considering the fact that we're in the high school form, I feel silly, but regardless what I say holds truth.)

You should make friends with everyone in high school because you're forced to socialize. And there is no harm in widening your social circle either, don't take it that way.

In college and then out of college, you're responsible for the company you keep and there is a much larger selection. When you're past 21+ you're normally only interested in her for one thing and not really her outside life. This includes her friends. When you interact with her friends, you run the risk of being c0ckblocked at some level. Especially if the girl you're going after is more attractive than her friends. If you're at a bar, one of her friends may "accidentally" drink too much, or want to leave, or be an outright b1tch.

Or you may find out her friends are much hotter than her....

Sure, making a good impression on her friends isn't negative, and if you're looking for a girlfriend it can't hurt. But you shouldn't make it a habit of commingling with her friends, it can complicate things.
 

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never said not to make friends with them, i am friends with them, just, if they start telling you things you don't wanna hear, DONT LISTEN, lol. and yeah, wat someone else earlier said has a point, you dont want them to go ***** about how much of an A-hole you are, so be nice to them too.
 
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