"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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A phrase that works well for me.

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When I'm talking to a girl, and she says something stupid, I say "your lucky your cute". this implies shes dull, but shes still flattered. Works well for me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Tom Leykis calls that a back handed compliment. Its a compliment and slap in the face at the same time. Beautiful

Another example.

Her: "Do these jeans make me look fat?"

You: "I, think you look great."

Emphasis on the "I".

That way you are essentially saying "Yes, you are fat and you are lucky to be with a guy like me." :)
 

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Originally posted by S0LID
When I'm talking to a girl, and she says something stupid, I say "your lucky your cute". this implies shes dull, but shes still flattered. Works well for me.
I like that. Is it copywrighted? Can you give me copying permission? :D :)
 

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Her: "Do these jeans make me look fat?"

Me: "No its all that chocolate and candy you eat that makes you look fat"

That should get a good reaction :eek:
 

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lol, my friend uses that all the time. works decent.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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No
grl- does this make me look fat? (obvious us dj don't do fat chicks)
dj- No your fat makes you look fat :D
 

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I was just thinking, if you put her hand on ur palm, and said "your lucky your cute", it would work better.
 
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